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Even if it’s not your first speech you’ll be feeling the pressure to do a great job for the guests and for the groom - a close friend or family member who’s asked you to fulfill this vitally important role. Many people have no idea where to even start – some have even have been tempted to buy a pre-written, previously used bunch of speeches on the internet, by someone who knows nothing about public speaking and even less about the bride and groom. Not a great choice. With the build up to the big day, you’ll probably be getting more nervous about your bestman speech as the wedding day gets closer and closer: am I saying the right thing? Have I missed anything out? Have I practiced enough? Will I be overcome with emotion or anxiety and not be able to say it effectively? Will I end up looking like a fool?! “…it’s not uncommon for the best man to be physically sick with ‘stage fright…” On the day itself, it’s not uncommon for the best man to be physically sick with ‘stage fright’ at the prospect of standing and delivering his speech. Even if they have spoken in public or given presentations before, the emotional experience of public speaking at a wedding often catches them out, making their speech a breathless, choking, sweaty-palmed endeavor that they’d rather forget.
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*** WARNING *** There are dozens of ‘Best Man Speech’ products on the market. Most of them are not written by professionals, but by people who have been a best man once or twice, and now call themselves experts! Make
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Hi! We are Anna Beckwith and Lynn Smith –
professional speech writers, presentation skills trainers
and life skills coaches.
But we didn’t start out that way.
Both of us had a background in coaching and in the performing arts and professional acting, but were working in other jobs when something happened that prompted us into action.…
“He didn’t ask his best friend...because he’d
be lousy at the speech”
When my brother got married a couple of years ago, it was a real family-and-close-friends event. After a few years away, he’d moved back to the area where we’d grown up, and there had met his lovely future wife, and re-established some of the firm friendships of his childhood. Their summer wedding was held in a beautiful old church in the heart of a rural English village, and a horse and carriage took the newly married couple back up the hill to a reception in the garden of her parents’ house.
The big surprise of the occasion had been that my brother DIDN’T ask his best friend of many years to be his best man. When I asked him why, the answer shocked me. He said “because he’d be lousy at the speech”. The friend in question was torn between wanting to be there for my brother on his big day, and a total fear of public speaking. I really felt for them both…especially as I could have done something to help.
After this, Lynn and I realised that there must be hundreds of people out there who would like some professional speech tips, how-to guides, blueprints for how to write a best man speech and best man speech templates and examples... to say nothing of advice on how to actually present their speech. Bet your bottom dollar - you can kill a good speech stone dead if you’re overcome with nerves or emotion and don’t know how to deliver it properly!
We decided that we could use our collective 30 years experience of acting, speaking in public and coaching to create a way for people to learn not only how to write a great best man wedding speech, but - more importantly - how to stand up and deliver it with confidence and flair. We don’t want anyone else to miss out like my brother and his friend did.
Since then, we’ve coached dozens of people preparing wedding speeches, some of whom are terrified at the prospect of making a wedding speech, and many who speak in public frequently at work, but are just worried that the emotion of the occasion will get the better of them or want to fine-tune their skills.
If
you would like to quickly and easily learn professional techniques
for writing AND delivering your best man
speech, you’ll need to:
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what you need to know, do and say:
Earn the admiration of the guests and the gratitude of
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Don’t just stand up there and wing it, or read it
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man speech tips… you’ll be amazed how
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Don’t be caught out reading a bought speech that’s
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heard those stale old jokes before!
Learn
what to say if the best man is a family member:
Whether the best man is your brother, son, father, cousin
or best friend, avoid the common pitfalls of in-jokes and
gushy personal stories that leave so many speeches falling
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Understand
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Gauge your audience, and perfect your comic timing so
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This is your chance to give a GREAT best man speech that’ll be remembered for years!
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HERE ARE SOME TESTIMONIALS !
"Everyone was expecting me to make a really funny best man speech so the pressure was on, and it was starting to get to me. Your advice - especially on how to deliver the speech - was great. I really felt in control, my timing was spot on, and some of the guests were practically crying with laughter at one point. Several people came up and thanked me for my speech, and one even told me he’d been taking notes as he was going to be a best man a few weeks later! " T. Hitchcock , Bath UK (Best Man) |
“I’m used to public speaking in my line of work, but my daughter’s wedding day concerned me because I thought that nerves and emotion of giving away my little girl would get the better of me. I couldn’t have done it without your advice – I was still a little nervous on the day, but the practical tips you gave me paid off: many people came up afterwards and congratulated me – some said it was the best wedding speech they’ve ever heard! I felt so proud.“ I. Mason, Edinburgh UK (Father of the Bride) “…some said it was the best wedding speech they’ve ever heard! I felt so proud” |
“My brother and I had talked for years about being each others best man. When he asked me, I was still quite choked up. Your best man speech advice helped me through what for me could have been an overwhelming day. Thank you.” J. Cavendish. Southampton UK (Best Man) |
“I knew my best man would give a belter of a speech, and speaking in public was never my forte, so I just wanted to say a few words and let him get on with it. As it turned out, your advice gave me the confidence I needed to give a speech which I was able to say without faltering, and which wasn’t a ‘performance’ but which came from the heart. I think the guests appreciated it for that. And so did my wife.” T. MacDowell, Glasgow UK (Groom) |
“I had a good idea of what I wanted to say in my (best man) speech, but I started to get really nervous with a couple of weeks to go. But I stuck to the practice techniques you gave me, and they stood me in good stead on the wedding day: the bride’s and groom’s family thanked me for my speech, which meant a lot to me, as I’ve known them both for a long time.” C. Armstrong Dorset, UK |
*** WARNING ***
Many
of the Best Man Speech products on the market still leave
you
wide open to making mistakes on the day:
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- It’s true, you could buy an off-the-shelf best man speech for $30 and run the risk of everyone having heard the jokes before…and then spend hours trying to adapt it yourself anyway (DO NOT be tempted to try the ‘returned key’ joke – it’s as old as the hills).
- You could waste $50 - $100 having someone who doesn’t even know the groom (or you) write you a ‘personal’ best man speech…and again you’d probably have to spend your own time adapting it.
- You could spend $30 -$80 on books to tell you how to write your best man speech… but you’ll still have no idea how to stand up and say it.
- You could even spend $500 - $900+ on public speaking coaching to give you the techniques you need to deliver your speech with confidence. … when you could have spent that on the bachelor party and wedding gift, and probably your suit rental too!
- You could spend 2 weeks poring over the 3 most popular Best Man Speech books on Amazon and still not be sure if you’ve got it right.
- You could lose hours of sleep worrying about what’s going to happen on the day, simply because even if you have the perfect speech, you’ve not learned how to deliver it properly, and your nerves are in shreds.
OR
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